God is Not Abusive

This music video from Common Hymnal feels very important and powerful, especially for those Christians who have experienced some sort of abuse in the church.

Though many of us may be able to mentally/intellectually separate our view of God from the actions of the abuser, it may take more embodied practices (like singing songs) to get those messages of truth and healing to the rest of who we are. This song may be one small step in re-imagining God as Someone who "takes no pleasure in our shame" but "finds a place inside our pain."

Brittney Spencer (the singer) had this to say about the song:

"It almost sounds too simple to say aloud - 'God is not abusive.' Because no one ever should be. But the reality is that we live in a world where experiencing some form of abuse feels as likely to happen as getting a new job, changing up your hairstyle or taking a trip to some far away city."

I copied the lyrics below the video if you would like to read along.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tV0f9wCyqeo

VERSE 1

God is not abusive

Takes no pleasure in our shame

He finds a place inside our pain

Hallelujah

CHORUS

Come now everybody

Lay down every stone

He will not condemn you

There’s freedom at his throne

VERSE 2

When hurt grows me to silence

Bearing guilt from other’s sins

Lord, lift my voice to cry out

Spirit catch the tears that fall

VERSE 3

Jesus sees my trauma

Holds my broken pieces

And draws me to his kindness

Hallelujah

BRIDGE

So come

Do not be afraid

These burdens no longer need to keep you silent

Oh come

Do not be afraid

There’s refuge from all

The hurts and pains that haunt you